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[ Monday, July 31, 2006 ]
AUGUST BIRTHDAYS, ANNIVERSARIES
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Galen Nantes, Jim McMurtrie, & Amanda Liwanag (4); Me! (9); Dorinne(Bingbing) dela Isla (10); Charlotte Aurora Jones (14); Ernie, & DeeDee Jaromay (16); Elias Robert & Ethan Arthur Mast (23); Jordan Willis (25); Beau Oyzon (27); Coco Oyzon, Derek, & Dante Basco (28).
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!
Ken & Grace Fukushima (12); James & Kathy Gusmano (28); Richard & Vickie Greif (31).
If I failed to include your special dates, please post in Comments…Thanks!
[ Friday, July 14, 2006 ]
Godspeed, Leecie!
Elice will fly to Morocco tomorrow.
She had been a good daughter-in-residence, a morale-booster and a chick-flick companion. I shall miss that! Chakib promised to take care of her (bless him, he’d been a constant caller, too).
The Mcboys, Aidan, Connor and Gabriel will spend two weeks with us here, in Virginia. Yesterday Jim and lolo took them to Funland. Today, we took them to the Air and Space Museum near Dulles Airport when we dropped Elice off. Then they had the marine haircut at Quantico. Tomorrow we’re off to the DC zoo.
[ Tuesday, July 11, 2006 ]
Couple reunites, finds bliss after Bataan Death March
Dolores and Damoso Basco, who celebrate their 65th anniversary this weekend, discuss their lives together at their Pittsburg home on Wednesday.
-CONTRA COSTA TIMES
PITTSBURG - She was 12 when they met. He was 22, a military man like her father. He said he would wait for her to grow up—but really, that was a joke, and they decided to become friends instead. She said he had a girlfriend back then anyway. He said, “I had two.”
By the time Damaso Basco married Dolores in July of 1941 in their native Philippines, he was 29 and she was 19. They planned to start a family. She wanted to substitute teach.
But World War II broke out, and Damaso Basco was captured in his native land by the Japanese army along with thousands of other Filipino and American soldiers. It was the beginning of a long, torturous separation for the newlyweds.
The men were forced to make hellish walks to prison camps, miles and miles in the scorching sun—today, this is known as the Bataan Death March. Many died along the way of malaria, dysentery or dehydration. Many were shot, bayoneted or beheaded by their captors. Many were buried alive.
Throughout the ordeal, Dolores kept tabs on her husband to the extent she could, following him with groups of other women. She didn’t care if she died doing it; she would keep up if it killed her.
While he was being held inside a school building, Dolores found him and sneaked him food and love letters. She begged Japanese guards to let him see their new baby daughter, Dulce, before he was herded to another location. The guards said no.
“Oh, I suffered,” said Dolores, now 84.
“We were praying so hard. The officers’ wives, we left together with all of our children, and we didn’t know if the men were alive or dead. There were so many rumors. We just didn’t know.”
He survived and eventually made it to Manila, where Dolores and Dulce met him.
“We cried a lot,” Dolores said. “We never expected to see him again.”
Damaso Basco, now 94, and Dolores will celebrate their 65th wedding anniversary today.
They will have a party at the family home in Pittsburg this weekend—a modest gathering, only about 100 people, half of whom will be family.
They say their lives have been bliss since moving to Pittsburg in the early 1950s. All of the soldiers had been offered U.S. citizenship after the war, so Damaso Basco came to this country and eventually got a business degree. He worked as a purchasing agent for Pittsburg Community Hospital until he retired.
He doesn’t talk much about those days in the 1940s, but to make sure people don’t forget what happened, he and his wife were instrumental in starting the Fil-American Club in Pittsburg. Today, it is a thriving cultural and social club that has hundreds of members.
With seven children, 22 grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren, Dolores Basco said she and her husband have been blessed.
“I didn’t think we would make it to our 65th anniversary,” she said. “Our lives are peaceful now. We have a nice life.”
Doug Basco, the couple’s fifth child, said he admires his parents.
“I can only hope to get to year 65,” he said. “And nothing I’ve been through can compare to what they’ve been through.”